Awkward conversations

The “Awkward Conversation” Framework

Stop avoiding the awkward talk.
Here’s a simple 3-part framework to navigate it:

1. NAME IT: Start with vulnerability, not accusation. “I feel a bit awkward bringing this up, but I care about us/this project, so I want to be honest about…”
   · “I’d like to talk about said topic. It’s been on my mind.”
2. CLAIM IT: Use “I” statements, not “You” attacks.
   · ❌ “You always make us late!”
   · ✅ “I start to feel stressed and anxious when we’re running behind time.”
3. AIM IT: State the desired outcome. Make it a “we” problem to solve.
   · “I’m not blaming you. I’m wondering how we can figure this out together?”
   · “What are your thoughts on how we can prevent this next time?”

Awkward conversations become productive when the goal is understanding, not winning.

Try this framework for your next difficult chat.

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